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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi im 14 and im really in love with this boy we've been meeting up for a thew months now and hes the first boy that ive really fallen for. most weekend nights i sneak out of my house at 11 and go down his till about 3 in the morning. but it seems like hes using me he keeps telling everyone i know that he does not fancy me and only likes me as a mate so why is he meeting up with me ? its getting me really down Everytime i go round we kiss cuddle n snuggle up together and sometimes have oral sex. but why hasnt he asked me out and why does he only phone me to meet up with him in the night and how can i get over him because i really cant take this any more i keep crying all the time over him please help ? ! x
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
 He's using you sweetie. You need to set him an ultimatum. Tell him that if there isn't going to be a relationship you are going to stop seeing him. You sneaking out the house that late a night to see him is also putting you in great danger. I wouldn't even walk about at 11 at night or 3am.
Move on and find someone who respects you and doesn't use you!
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reader, love-him +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Hia babii, im so sorry this is gona sound so cruel but honestly i think he could be using you, if he realy liked you he would ask you out, not just let you sneak out at night, why doesnt he want to go out with you during the day? babii, he isnt worth your time.. mail me 2 talk x x x
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reader, nologo  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 I can't see how he may be using you.What I do see is desire to dump him.You are not in "appropriate relationship" as you imagine it.This is said to "everyone" on purpose I believe it is false:"he keeps telling everyone i know that he does not fancy me and only likes me as a mate".Advice to "i really cant take this any more": spend time without him or slow down to see what you need.
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