A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:HelloI would just like some advice on how to handle my situation and If I am being too jealous? I was dating a guy a while back which didn't work out as he had only been single for about 3 weeks and didn't want to jump back into a relationship. Anyway a few months ago he got back in touch a lot and we have got together now properly, we are in a relationship. Anyway he has this 'girl' 'friend' who calls him and messages him non stop, they always meet when they're out he says she's like one of the lads. He helped her to move and she asked him to stay over before when she got lonely! Anyway now we are together I just asked him to consider my feelings a little, not stop seeing her or anything. But still every time he's on a lads night he meets up with her, he doesnt tell me I have found out. Also there is another girl he is 'friends' with and they message sometimes and he puts a million kisses on the end of every message! I know he wouldn't be with me if he didnt want to be and he comes to mine after his night out but I am a bit confused as to these other girls. I have been cheated on and lies to in my previous 3 relationships and it's making me feel like this is going to go the same way. Any advice?Thanks in advance x
View related questions:
jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, jinxx  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 I'm a girl with a lot of guy friends, and I can tell you that none of them have put a lot of kisses at the end of any message to me, let alone every one. You said yourself he has hidden the fact that he sees her when he's out from you.
Unless you want to make this #4, I'd get out now. Find someone who will be open and honest with you, and who will care when he makes you uncomfortable.
|
