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writes:Hey guys I hope you can help me out here...So my boyfriend shares a flatmate with his friend, Graham. for new years eve his flat mate suggested that they have a party in their flat, alot of their friends all live far away as they only live in this city for university. this was agreed a few days before new year and i told my boyfriend that it is last minute and no one will realy show. He told me to invite some of my friends - which I did. ALOT of my friends were up for this party and i kept my boyfriend posted everyday about how was comig - about 16 of them were coming and i felt awful but my boyfriend said that he didnt care that he was happy that i managed to get alot of people togeather - he also said that my friends are now his friends and it would be great. alot of my boyfriends friends couldnt make it so it was my 16 frieds and about 4 of their friends from uni. i got soooo drunk it was unreal and my friend put me to bed - the next morning my boyfriend was lying next to me - he told me that he went to bed about 4am and left "graham" with all my friends. he said that his flatmate kicked everyone out at 5am as he wanted to go to bed and told everyone that but no one lowered the noise and they kept being V.loud. so he told them to leave after three times of telling themto be quiet. i was told that one of my friends went crazy outside the flat and it took everyone an hour to calm him down - his response was tht it was "new year and they were entilted to make noise"he then went and blamed me and told everyone he wasnt talkin to again, my friends all stck up for me and said it had nothing to do with me as i was sleeping! he said that im to blame cause i invited them. he sent me a text satying he isnt speaking to me ever again and a second text calling my boyfriends flat mate a evil b*****d and what he did was horrible. iv spoken to him since and he has appoligised for what he said to me and after a long talk he appologised for going crazy outside the flat - becaus if he was standing their saying all that about me when i was sleeping he must of said ALOT about graham who kicked them out. He said that he isntsorry for being angry about being kicked out and i understan tht because i wouldnt behappy either.I gave him some advice on the phone and told him he needs to grow up and stop being so immature. which he agrees. but all of my friends including me agree that But, after i met with a friend today and retold the story iv lost count with how many peope think that he was in the wrong.I feel crappy becayse he said that it ruined his night yet has he stoped to think about how many peoples nights he ruined by going mad for an hour?i just think iv grew up quite abit and i have realised that im done having silly/immature friends and the ones who dont act like idiots when they are drunk or sulking are maybe the ones i should consider my true friends.please help?x
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