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writes:Hi, ive been split up from my husband for nearly 8 months and i am beginning to get my life on track. One of the things ive been doing since the break up is salsa dancing, and i really enjoy it. One of the guys there has asked me out dancing at another club, ive said yes because I like him, but im also really worried, I know i am no where near ready for another relationship, but i know going on dates will help regain my confidence. Any advice would be welcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): It would appear that you have come out of long term relationship. Only you will know if you are ready for a serious relationship. If you still have your husband on your mind than you are probably not ready for a serious relationship. But I would go on the date, but tell the guy that you are not ready for any thing serious. You will get alot of respect for telling him upfront. Take things slowly, you will never know how things develop. Take Care
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Maybe you should go for it, you never know, if you aren't ready for a relationship maybe you'll become great friends and that would be really good, wouldn't it? Just be honest with him about what you do and don't want, I'm sure you'll have a great time, go for it, I say :)
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 Its great to see you are getting on with your life. I would go out with this guy you say you really like him so just see what happens. If he starts to take things too fast then you can explain to him that you are not ready for a relationship. But for the moment just go out and have some fun and see what happens.
Good luck,
aunty t
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