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writes:am 26 years old,am in love with a 46 year old man who is a real player,for the first 6months he was all i ever dream t off,later i found out that he was involved with many other women but keeps on denying it.he insists that they are just good friends that he flirts with,tho its clear to me he in involved with them.whenever i bring up the topic he gets mad at me saying that am judging him and that i hurt him with my accusations and that he is going to leave me alone, he then disappears for weeks till i go looking for him .i was brought up by a single mom and he is like gave me the father figure that i never had in my life,and now he uses this to manipulate me.i love him so much i cant imagine life without him,he is a real cheat and will never admit to any of his mistakes.i always end up apologizing even when am not wrongkindly help me out
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 Why oh Why, are you chasing him. Are you mental? L.O.L.You are 26, he is 46. Christ girl! he should be chasing you and you should be telling him to get lost. I dont believe that an age gap cant work, but this guy sounds like more hard work than he is worth.Cant tell you what to do, but you know you are setting yourself up for a hard time, if you go after this man.XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Loose him, fast! This man is not good for your well-being. You need to love yourself and then you will demand nothing less than someone loving you the way you know you deserve to be loved. You are not there.
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 October 2007):
 I think you should ditch this guy, not because he is 20 years older but because he a player, and i feel he is going behind your back with other woman. He clearly can't be trusted, and with this player image could you ever trust him. I think you should walk away and find someone who gives you the love & respect that you so rightly deserve.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): End it. He feeds off the fact that you need him so much. And you are becoming far too relient on him, it can become unhealthy. If you know in your heart that he is a cheat and a liar then why would you settle fot it?
Next time he throws his toys out the pram and waits for you to come running, simply dont. x
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