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writes:I first met him at a party and he asked me my phone no. He was quite reserved and slow mover. So I texed him first and we went out together for a couple of times but we weren't clicked. So we decided to be just friends. After that we shared a lot of stuff about the girl he likes and I encouraged him to make a move with her. But that girl has a boyfriend so he was not sure what he would do. Oh I forgot to tell that he is now 38 and I am 2 years younger than him. We are not closed friend, though. Last night I was invited to his party at his house. There was a girl who seemed intersted in him and I also pushed him to get her.But he just said no! But I saw them were talking and sneaking into his room for a moment. But I don't care at all. After that I was talking with him and his friends and I felt so comfortable, safe with him. I was drunk and high then I hugged him a lot but he was acting normal and hugged me back a bit. He said that I was acting like I was his wife. Then I stop hugging him and 10 minutes later I grabbed his arms to hug me. I don't know what happened, then he walked me home and we kissed ( french kiss) 2 -3 times when we were alone. I don't know who started first. Then we were about to kiss again but he just pushed me and said he didn't want me to feel regret in the morning. To be honest I didn't like him but I am not sure about my feeling now. I don't know how he feels about me. He usually thinks I am too conservative. We havn't talked about it after since . What should I do? will he think I am a naughty woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould I text him first in order to talk to him or wait until he contact me first? We normally are not close friend that meet very often?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould I text him first in order to talk to him or wait until he contact me first? We normally are not close friend that meet very often?
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reader, Candid Cally  +, writes (7 August 2012):
He knew you were drunk and high and didn't want you to do something with him that would be out of character for you.
I don't think that he thinks you were a naughty woman. Also, he had the decency to push you away instrad of take advantage of your inebriated state. That shows that he probably has good character.
Usually, when there is an attraction between two people you know it...you can feel it. It isn't something that you decide later based on whether you think the person likes you as more than a friend. If you see him as a friend, then keep things comfortable by remaining friends. If you are concerned he may see you differently because you were hugging and kissing him, apologize and explain to him that you were drunk and high and got a little out of control, but you hope it doesn't change the friendship you have. If you do like him and may want to see if you could be more than friends, you could tell him that you had a great time with him at the party and see how he reacts. If he likes you, he will probably agree with you and even laugh and comment about your behavior. Either way, you can take things from there.
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