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writes:okay i have i boy friend and we have been together for a while and well i forget things really really easy and i was playing truth and dare at this party i had a shot or two and well i ended up just kissing this other boy but my boyfriend is really really against cheating he absoulutly hates it and most my friends sa don't tell him its not worth it and i think if i told him he would wanna break up i really like him i could not break up over that so should i tell him or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): i have been in the exact same situation! i told my boyfriend strait away and he came a picked me up from the party and everything was ok. yet, a couple of days later he rang my saying that he feels horrible and doesnt want to go on feeling like this, and even though i said all i could, he broke up with me. we havnt spoken since. but now i am with a new boy and love him to bits :) my advice would be to own up as he WILL find out anyway and you will feel awkward around him. but if you do break up, it isnt the end of the world even though it may feel like it at the moment, you will find someone even more amazing like i have and you will look back on the relationship as a nice memory :) good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): you should tell him before he finds out, if he thinks that you are cheating on him, get all the friends that was playing the game with you to tell him the story even the boy you kissed
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): You should own up to your actions. He will find out sooner or later, and it will look bad on your part that you tried to hide it from him.
Learn to accept the consequences of your actions. You did the wrong thing, and quite frankly, cheating is very low. If he breaks up with you, you only have yourself to blame. Sorry.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 It was only a game of truth or dare, it was innocent and if he were to break up with you over a game then he is not worth it. Its up to yourself if you want to tell him or not, but it might be better coming from you, than him finding out from someone else, because then it looks like you are hiding more than you are and he wont be able to trust you.
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