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writes:I brokeup with him around 3 months ago because I was over his temper. I've spent time alone since and I realize how much he never put effort into the relationship, would blame me for problems he caused. He did things that are unacceptable to anyone, yet he would twist them, call me crazy or blame me. Since we broke up, he's told me he doesn't want to speak to me three different times. Every time we go into no contact, he's back within three weeks telling me how he misses me. At the moment, I'm out of the country and won't be back till new year. The last few times we spoke he said he missed me and wanted to know when I'm coming back. He even told me he missed speaking to my mum, ridiculous as he never expressed much of a liking towards her. I know I have to move on, as much as I care he will never be the partner I want. Problem is I keep thinking about him and waiting for him to contact me (I won't start conversation). I hate myself for waiting on a misogynistic who didn't treat me okay. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2013): I don't think it is really him that you miss, considering he didn't treat you right. I think what it is that you really need is some closure as to what really went wrong between the two of you. Just try to stay busy and remember to be productive and move forward with your life at your own pace. You'll never have a happy relationship if you stay caught up in the wrong ones.
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reader, Kyra23  +, writes (26 September 2013):
He's manipulative...I think you should forget him even if you feel pain right know. You'll find a better and nicer man.
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reader, llifton +, writes (26 September 2013):
 Only thing you can do is to keep doing what you're already doing. Just keep going no contact and eventually your thoughts of him will fade into the past.
Time. That's the main thing. That and keeping yourself occupied. Good luck. stay strong.
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