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*easedguyfreak
writes:I suffer from OAB (Over Active Bladder) and have done all my life - a urinal disorder which stimulates my bladder and causes the urge for release almost all the time. This, not only prevents me from having a decent life and a substantial amount of friends - but always stubs my sex/love life. At the age of 27 - I've never been kissed, remain a virgin, and have never even had a girlfriend. Quite depressing when I come to think about it - but understandable I suppose. What woman in there right mind is going to date and make love with a guy who spends the majority of his life urinating? None. But they do enjoy teasing me.I can't picture a girl I know who in one instance or another has never teased me. They indulge in my discomfort and humilation - every single girl I know!And as far as I am aware, they show no romantic or sexual interest in me, suggesting that their teasing is not more intentional purposes (making me more interested in them). But I hate the way they tease me - my confidence is shattering, my ego is suffering, and I need a girl! I am a man - I need sex, I need a reputation, and most of all - I need help. Please answer. I'll be very grateful.
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reader, Western3589  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I'm not to sure about this but next time someone makes fun of you fall to your knees(not literally) and tell them how much it hurts and how you have suffered your whole life.Meanwhile try to find someone who does not know about your problem. On your first date make sure you tell them you have OAB but it's easy to handle in your life.If you can find someone other than a porn star who enjoys pee fetishs then it will seem to work out.
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reader, MichaelS2 +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I'm 18 and haven't been kissed,nor have I had sex or a girlfriend. I don't know much about 'Over Active Bladder' but there probably is some form of treatment that could help.Not everyone's going to be nice about things,However I am positive there are women that wouldn't make fun of you.It's a serious issue so the women your around are probably extremely immature if they can't see that.I'd ask a doctor if you haven't already.I'm not familiar with OAB so I don't know much about it,but I am willing to guess that if you let a girl that you like who may like you back about your problem they won't laugh.If they do,than they are immature or cruel.Keep your head up,Your not the only one who suffers from things such as those.To tackle your task I'd slowly build confidence by talking to the opposite sex.If you find a girl you like,explain your condition and if she isn't okay with it,than move on.
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