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writes:What do I do? I was going out with this guy when I broke up with him because he's really pressurising and really mean sometimes, however we'd been in a relationship on and off for 11 months. But about 4 days after breaking up with him I started dating another guy, "Jo". But then I really missed my boyfriend of 11 months on and off so I broke up with "Jo" and got back with my ex. But now I did the same thing, I dumped my partner of 11 months on and off and got back with "Jo". And I'm starting to miss my ex again and he really wants me back and I don't know what to do, because "Jo" is a really nice guy but I love my ex.
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reader, shiraz +, writes (12 October 2008):
hiyahh, youve had such rocky relationships with the two if i were you id be needing some me time to sort my head out before i got back in there and started again, it must really mess you up emotinally so why keep letting it happen? choose one guy and stick with him think of your ex as the past rather than a contnder for the future or people will start getting hurt and you will be futher into a mess than before. you cannot be happy with either as you have finished woth both or wanted to at some point and that will always be there what ever you do. yeah you want to get back with your ex now but think about yourself, this can be ongoing for so long unless you sort it now.I cant tel you what you want but personally i would end it with the guy your with and tell your ex you need time this way you can really sort out your head without being in the middle again. im sorry i sound so harsh and i know your situattion has more to it than you can explain so do the best for you, i can only judge on what you have said and i really think you need a fresh start- start it aloneand see where it takes you- you dont have to constantly be serious with someone have your fun and enjoy a different style of life - best of luck x :)
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