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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been involved with a married man for 9 months. When we first got together I was hesitant, but decided to be his friend, of course we fell in love. He texts and contacts me every day and night, over the past months she has found the texts and has investigated the numbers and who I am. He also was communicating with someone else he works with, but he said it was nothing going on, He told her that I did not mean anything to him and that it was nothing going on with us, basically he lied to her. She said she wants her marriage which is both of thems second marriage and he has decided to work it out with her, but he does not know if he has made the right decision. She has 3 children from 3 men and they have 1 child between them, he does not have any. He is not to fund of one of her children. She told him before me that she does not know why she doesn't want to have sex after their child was born. They have been married for 5 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): It will be difficult, but, I would move on to the next man. And there are many out there.
My older sister and I dated a married men before, it is not fun. Neither of them left their wives, and we were left looking like fools.
Move on, he does not deserve you anyway. You have a lot to offer, and he should be in your rear-view mirror as you drive off into the sunset to find your true love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): He lied and basically made you out to be a nobody with no importance when his wife asked.Be smart,move on.There are better men out there.If hes not happy,thats his problem.Having an affair wont make life at home better for him,your making it worse.
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