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writes:2 months ago I saw a boy walking in front of the house. He was looking at me, I got surprised and I tought: "Oh my god, he is really handsome!" (Ive never seen him before ). He turned his head back and watched me till he didnt turn right to the other road. Then I saw him several times a week, he lives very close to me, sometimes we go with the same train. He was always staring at me on the train, and always sat very close to me.I became totally crazy for him. I am always nervous when he appears, I am blushing and I started being interested in him... very much.My problem is that : He is staring at me whenever we meet, even sometimes he is blushing too... BUT HE NEVER TALKES TO ME!!It happened on Tuesday that we were going again with the same train. He almost missed the train, but he ran after me and sat NEXT TO ME. Same story repeated, we were looking at eachother till we got to the station. I also saw that he was smiling at me, and I remember he tried to flirt with me, he COCKED HIS EYE AT ME!!!!! But I got stunned and I couldn't respond to him, as I was just lost in his eyes. I felt very bad, that I coudnt smile back and I was just sitting and blushing... seriously i got very damn....Next day I was going out and I saw he is going home. So we passed each other and were again looking at the other... I felt melting. He again turned his head towards me... but never talk :(On Friday I went to the doctor for an injection, and he was there, and this is what I cant believe now, that why we always meet??!!!! He was staring at me agian, again and again. This is a beautiful feeling, I really do love it, but I dont know why he never starts talking to me. He doesnt know me, doesnt know who I am. He just knows where I live, but I dont know anything about him!!! But I feel something very special, like he is a guy I wanna know better! But how can I get closer to him if he never talkes to me? If he always just look/star/watch me but never talk to me!! Is he shy? Or... might be he doesn't like me. But then why is he doing all these things?? But I know I want to get closer to him, and I feel so bad, that he lives very close to me, and if even he loves me than why cant we be together??? :) So help me, suggest me something, how shall I get closer to him? (One more information: Might be he is younger than me. I am 20, and I guess he is 18-19 or MAX the same like me... but its not a problem for me, bcz the way he is looking at me made me crazy...)Thanks for the help, I am very afraid that one day this will be over and I will never know him :(
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reader, Lujza21 +, writes (20 February 2013):
Lujza21 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello All,
Thanks for the help!!!!! So much :) I give you some update: Last Tuesday he stand in front of me on the train and smiled at me. I again started freezing but this time I was strong and smiled back :) Then we were smiling for 2-3 stations when he sat next to me and we started talking. On Thrusday (Valentine's day) he gave gifted me with a heart -formed chocholate. So yes, we started dating and Im happy :) Thanks for your help!!!!!!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (24 December 2012):
 He has not spoken to you because asking strangers out can seem creepy. We are taught to be wary of strangers because anyone can be a psychopath or stalker. He does not know how you feel and is also waiting for you to be the first one to say something. There is discrepancy between fantasy and reality. When you get to know the real him by talking he may not be as perfect as your dream version of him so neither of you want to ruin it by making it real. Whatever way you want to do it it's up to you. One thing that came to my mind was that you could start by holding his hand next time he sits next to you.
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