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I just want to know if the boy at school likes me... and why he hasn't aske me out!

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Question - (5 August 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hello agony aunt,

I'm a 13 year old girl with a problem about this boy at school. I really really like him and I dunno if he likes me. My friends say he does and he is always looking at me and when my friend was talking to him the other day she asked him if he does and he went bright red and couldn't stop smiling and then said 'no' very quietly. Then she said "well can I set you guys up?" and he said yes straightaway.

Whenever I say hi or look at him he smiles and goes bright red! Or when ever he hears my name or someone is talking about me and two of his friends say that he is always talking about me.

What can I do? I don't know if I can trust these friends. So do you think he does? And please don't just tell me what I want to hear! If he doesn't then what can I do to get him to like me? Cuz I'm very nervious to talk to him and I think he knows that I like him and if he does and he does like me why hasn't he asked me out yet?

Please help me! I really like him!

yours truly

very confused but hopeful

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2005):

well that's also my case in the school, we have the same problem. by the way you should tell him that you really like him and if you tell him that be sure that you and that boy all alone and girl, trust me coz i've done my part it was really sad. i did not tell him what i feel for him and the next day i found out that it's too late to express my feelings coz he is taken by other girl.

my friends tell me that i should forget him but i can't he is my ultimate crush in the whole wide world. girl just be brave. if you really like him tell him the truth just don't be flirty coz other boys like your crush don't like flirt girls ok?

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A male reader, chazz007 +, writes (6 August 2005):

I was once that shy guy (metaphorically, of course). If you're unsnure of things, you should just ask him. Imagine how bad it is for you, and know that he's going through things that are just as bad, if not worse, as he doesn't have the benefit of friends telling him you like him.

If he's a decent guy, he'll be nice to you if you just come up and tell him; it's nerve-wracking at first, but worth it. The chances are he does like you, so all will be solved there. And if he doesn't, if he's a nice guy he will be nice letting you down. If he's not a nice guy, then it's really not worth worrying about him that much if he's a jerk to you; it's silly to get upset about what jerks do - that's what makes them jerks.

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