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writes:Hi, I had a bad fall out with a guy I was seeing. He totally overacted with me, thinking I was stirring up trouble between him and this other lady he was flirting with online, although they are now seeing each other too.The trouble is - even though he has treated me badly and overreacted - I have not been able to have my say about things as he blocked me on both Whatsapp and Facebook, straight away before I could try to make amends. I'm not even sure if I can still ring his mobile or not as I haven't tried.I would really like to make up with this guy one day, even though I know he is holding a grudge against me. I don't want to get back with him or even become life long friends, I just want things to be on good terms again, as it hurts that we have fallen out in this way.The question is - how long should I wait before I try and contact him and what would be the best way to do it? I know people will say 'move on' - but I am not love sick for him - just want to explain things to him.I would appreciate advice from any men who may have stopped talking to their ex's in this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2015): Hi Ruby,
I am the OP
No we don't work together - I just don't like being thought of as someone I'm not. I hate the fact he won't let me into his life at all.
I know he has treated me bad - I guess bad boys still have that magnetism & I just want to put him straight.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 June 2015):
 WHY n EARTH do you think you OWE him to make amends?
The DUDE was seeing you AND flirting with another chick and when you found out he "overreacted" and threw a fit...
Why do you think you OWE him an explanation?
And honestly, if someone TREATS you like crap and then block you.. THEY do not want you in their lives. Why this desperation for this losers approval?
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (5 June 2015):
Why do you need to explain yourself or make amends - he's the one who over-reacted?
Why is important that you have to be friends? Do you still have to see him because of work or mutual friends (in which cse I can understand the need to be civil and keep bitchiness and backstabbing to a minimum) but otherwise, why bother?
I know it's not nice to know that somebody out there dislikes you and has got the wrong end of the stick, but sometimes you've got to let people go....
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