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writes: How do I tell a guy to leave me alone? I think this guy likes me becouse he's always picking on me and you know how weird some guys show that they like a certain girl. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, willywombat +, writes (19 March 2006):
tell him. Just say to him *back off, you make me uncomfortable*. Dont be shy about it otherwise it will continue and you will remain unhappy and uncomfortable.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (19 March 2006):
i think you speak to him, tell him how you feel about him picking on you. That your not attracted to him that you find it attention sweet but unwanted.
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reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (18 March 2006):
If it were me, I'd just say "OK, that's enough" and walk away.
The reason he's picking on you and doing whatever it is he's doing is that it gets a response from you. If you withhold a response, he doesn't get rewarded, and he'll eventually quit it.
Depending on how strongly you feel, you can ask for back up from an adult friend or a large-bodied male friend to tell him to knock it off, too. However, the simplest way is to make eye contact with him and tell him to stop, then go somewhere else.
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