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writes: I have a dating problem. I know this guy who asked me out. I met him in the hospital while my father was there. So anyway he kissed me and he gave me my first kiss. He is 21 and I am 16. Anyway the day of the date he never came. I just want an apology, I don´t know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2005): Yes, he should apologize, but even if he does-I sure hope you would never, ever consider dating him again. Do you really want to date someone who is that unreliable and rather uncaring? This is your wake-up call as to the kind of person he is-in my opinion, not the kind of person who deserves to be your boyfriend. Besides, Hun..you are way too young for him.
Let it go...you may never get an apology. This happens all the time in the dating world and as rude as it is...some guys are jerks and they never apologize. This type of behaviour simply shows what type of person he is and it's better you found that out now. Move on and forget this.
Be Strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2005): Just txt, fone, email or talk to him - it can be easily resolved, and if he likes you, he will apologize and organise another date. You don't know what could have happened when he was meant to be on ur date - perhaps something very out of the ordinary happened and someone really needed him. If that was the case, it shouldnt take much to restore ur faith in him.
I've been there 2, I'm 20 and was meant to go on a date with a 16 yr old - not that age matters when you love someone enough to respect them. I did the mistake of telling her by email that i had to change my plans - which as you can guess wasnt accepted very nicely at first, but, after apologizing anf talking it through, - now we are still talking loads and loads on the internet and on the fone, and will be going on our '1st' date very soon.
If he did feel something for you, you will get an apology !
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2005): He might have had an excuse. Why don't you call him and ask him what happened. If during his excuse he doesn't say sorry than be sure that he didn't really have any feelings towards you, cuz after all he is much more older and might just wanted to play with your feelings. But if he says sorry then give him another chance. Just listen to your heart.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (28 July 2005):
Forget about him and an apology, hes not worth it.
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