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writes:Hi I wrote up here yesterday and this was my question. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-my-teachernow-im.html. If you wanna know more about what I'm on about. Thanks for the reply I got, I forgot who it was off now but thanks. Anyway I'm writing this based on the reply I got just to make things bit more clear.(I always think of other stuff to put in the question after I've posted it lol) I hardly see her at all as she taught me in juniors and we hardly ever spoke. I only see her out and about occasionally or if she's just coming out of work and I happen to be walking the same way but I don't acknowledge her in any way as said before. I suppose I do care about her about her in a secret way as a friend because I would be upset if she died or summat lol and I do really think she has a nice side to her as she seems different when I've seen her out with other peope in the past so that might be a reason to ll this. I suppose I do want to be like her and at school at juniors I wanted her to like me (not in that way by the way, just like she liked the other pupils there). I know you said I need to get a boyfriend but to be honest I really don't want one at all at the moment I'm just not interested in them at all and I want to wait until I'm older so I can find someone I want to be with for the rest of my life not being with someone who just wants sex like they do now or they arent serious enough about it all and I just want to enjoy my life. I'm not really like a lot of others I don't do drugs and I don't drink infact I'm a really quiet person and although I do like to go out I like to be on my own as well. So that's that. I just really want to know why I'm having them dreams and what do they mean? (I said what happened in the dreams in my other question-the link at the top) Please help is it just the fact that I might miss her?.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (3 July 2007):
 You admire this teacher. She looks good, from her hair, her nails, the way she dresses, the way she walks etc. You hold her in high regard and WANT to be more like her. Although you don't fancy her, there is something about her physical and mental makeup that is very attractive to you. I also feel because of her divorce you might feel you want to protect her and look out for her, hence the reason you actually asked her about her divorce in your dream.
The fact you are actually dreaming about her tells me that there is something in your life you're not happy about just now and you may be seeking some advice, guidance, or knowledge from someone more learned, hence the reason this teacher keeps popping up. You're at a stage in your life where you need to make decisions and want to learn from example. SHE is the ultimate example (in your eyes). You know you need to be thinking of a new path for yourself with regards to what you want to do with your future. You feel this teacher would be the ideal person to help you here and this is the reason you keep dreaming of her all the time.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (3 July 2007):
 This is tricky but in general dreams can reveal many things that are hidden. In general they are the bubbling to the surface of our conscious mind things that are kept within the subconscious. In this case it could be something about your own personality or about your feelings for her. I dont think you need to worry about your sexuality, i think its possible shes more a role model.
In your first post you said that you were talking to your teacher about her failed marriage. It strikes me that your own attitude towards having a bf of not right now and waiting for something later in life which is about marriage and spending forever together and this dream conversation with your teacher maybe connected. Maybe there are two opposing tendencies, one to wait and see and one to look for somebody now within your own mind.
Have alot of your peers got bfs? Do you feel that your attitude to these things (really very mature and praiseworthy) excludes you socially? If you want to chat more mail me, I hope that has at least given you some suggestions and been a little help :).
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