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writes:Okay, So me and and this guy broke up and and we dated for a long time and and i miss him alot and and we still talk and and say i love you but he gets mad at me alot and and i just can't take it. . .i love him so much and and i just can't let him go what should i do. and and i have already tried not talking too him made it 2 weeks the i just had to hear his voice! what should i do please help.
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (9 February 2009):
 It seems to me that you are too addicted to this guy. If you dated a long time, I can understand that it would be hard not being with him, but you simply have to allow yourself to get over him! There's nothing else to it! Everybody goes through this at some point, and you either come out on top or let it rule your life. "I just can't let him go." YES YOU CAN. That's part of your problem there, is that you're telling yourself that you need him. YOU DON'T. My remedy for getting over a breakup is to cut the guy completely out of my life (at least for the first little while), until I know I'm over him, then if circumstances allow, I slowly let him back and sometimes we stay friends, sometimes we don't. You have to put yourself first here, ok? Give yourself time to heal before contacting him.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING WONDERFUL!! And that includes a guy who will treat you right and not be mad at you all the time.
masq
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