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*onfused girl 3
writes:I recently met a guy who is in my department at school when a bunch of us were out at a pub. we hit it off immediatley and spent the entire night talking, he kept rubbing my arm while we were talking too, and at the end of the night he asked for my number, gave me a hug and kissed me. i ran into him a couple of days later and we had a nice chat, but we both had to get to class, so we didn't talk long. two days later we ran into each other at the pub again and talked a bunch, he was asking me a lot of questions about my life, etc and it did come out that I'm several years older than him. Since then I haven't seen him around and he's never called/texted me. He seemed to be flirting with me everytime I've seen him, but I just don't know anymore. It's beginning to look like he's not interested and that the kiss the first night was alcohol induced. Did I miss-read his signals or something? Thanks!
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reader, confused girl 3 +, writes (15 March 2008):
confused girl 3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: quickly, to answer dearkelja's question, i'm three years older than him. I just saw him for the first time in nearly a month last night and he started texting me two days ago and now sends me several a day. he invited me to a movie with two of his friends and then we all went out afterwards and stayed out almost the entire night. he wasn't as touchy-feely as he was before, but there was lots of extended eye contact and some compliments (like he couldn't imagine that i could ever look bad in a photo and that i had a timeless face, or something like that). still, i couldn't help but get a bit of the friend vibe. i guess i will just have to spend more time with him to really know. thanks for your help!
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reader, sophiasparx  +, writes (12 March 2008):
Read here to find more tips to see if they're REALLY interested in you: http://sophiasparx.blogspot.com
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 He is like a shooting star. He lights up your world for a while and then is gone.
Maybe , the next time you meet him will confirm your feelings.
For now , we can only speculate the reasons for his non showing.
There could be a few reasons I can think off.
It could be job related, age differences or personal problems .
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 What is the timeframe on this? When was the last time you saw him? How much older are you?
Sometimes guys get confused about their feelings but depending on the timeframe of this situation, don't give up hope just yet.
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