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writes:Hi ive been dealing with many stuff and been hurt many times to. but my point is october 28 was my last messge with my ldr boyfreind its been 3 days now and he hasn't respond to my messege at all i text hime 2 times saying hey i hope you are ok i love you.i love him i need him to show me he cares too if not i will froget nothing happend between us is he ghosting me does he love me ive been hurt many times he teach me to love him amd not be afraid now this.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (1 November 2018):
 I agree. Don’t bother again for a week, then you know where you stand.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 October 2018):
 Don't text/message/call him for a week. See if he picks up the slack and IF he doesn't... well, then you know that your next move is to BLOCK him and DELETE him and then move on.
LDR rarely work out, OP For the simply reason that it's really not possible to maintain a HEALTHY relationship over tech. Human beings NEED human contact and interactions.
And Don't feel bad for caring for another person, even if you find out they don't care for you as much as you do them. That doesn't make YOU lacking or a failure, but it might mean you need to learn to guard your heart a bit more.
As for having been hurt in the past, well, OP THAT happens. You can't carry around that hurt and bring it into the next relationship expecting the other person to FIX that hurt or walk on eggshells because of that hurt.
Instead LEARN from the experiences that HURT you. Don't repeat them.
GIVE as much as you GET. And don't become DESPERATE for another person's attention. I get that it's HARD not knowing if he is OK or just ignoring you. But you need to find other things to focus on and not rely on ONE guy for making you feel love. Love yourself first. Then others.
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