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writes:So I met this guy about 7 months ago at the gym and he was very nice. We seemed to see eachother there alot and said hi then eventually he added me on fackbook and after a two hour long good conversation, we exchanged numbers. For the past two months we have been saying that we like eachother, going on dates, texting everyday and we talk on the phone at least an hour or two every single day. Then suddenly, 4 nights ago he said he'd give me a call back and never did. So i thought ok no big deal it's just one night. The next morning I called him first thing and we met for a quick breakfast and everything was going well as usual. At the end he told me he would call/text me later but he didn't. All the next day he didn't call or text me either. Then by sunday night when I haden't heard from him in two days I send him questin marks. he replied saing hi and I told him that he disappeared. he said "last night was crazy, I have such a headache" so I just replied saying "oh" becasue it upset me that he clearly didn't care about caling me or talking. He never wrote me back and hasn't called me all day today. It's just so random how he stoped talking to me. I didn't say or do anything and I just feel like I want an explination. He always assured me that this would never happen, yet look where I'm at. Why would a guy who's into you and talks to you everyday randomly stop with no explination? Thanks for ANY help!! :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Generally when this happens, there's another woman on the scene. Or he's not as interested as he thought he might be and doesn't have the courage to break it off. I would NOT take it personally and just write him off.
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reader, misztoria +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Hey, sorry to hear that your guy is starting to be distant. I very recently had this problem, but I was actually dating my guy for three months when he stopped calling and texting. Well one good thing is he does answer you when you contact him. The bad thing is he's starting to neglect contacting you. I'm going to give you the best advice I read for women in our position. STOP CONTACTING HIM! I know it sounds crazy and it will be VERY hard, trust me I'm playing the waiting game now, but men won't be interested in you if you're always the one calling and texting them. With that being said, you need to play hard to get. Men are hunters by nature and if he really likes you then he will make the effort to contact you. When men say they'll call that means they'll get to it when they're not busy. So go out with your girls keep yourself busy and if he calls keep the conversations short and tell him you're busy you'll have to call him back and then don't. Don't do this too long though, once he's back on track making plans and calling or texting you everyday then you can proceed to make contact, but until then avoid avoid avoid! Hope this helps. I recently ordered a book on this subject matter that was a best seller and I'm also a psychology student and currently studying how the male and female brains operate. Hope this helps!
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reader, katiekate +, writes (24 October 2011):
 I went through something similar this past summer. We met online, dated for three months, talked/texted every day. Then all of a sudden, he cut it off. But at least he gave a reason. He said he wasn't looking for anything serious. So I just accepted it and moved on. Never contacted him again. My advice would be to do the same. No matter what his reason may be for cutting things off or changing, the fact is that he is not interested in dating you anymore. Don't contact him again. The last thing you want is to appear desperate. You should just accept the fact that he is an asshole and move on. He is not worth your time!! You deserve someone who is 100% into you, not someone who gives you mixed messages.
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