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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please help me. I don't mean to, but I always have boys chasing me. I cant help it, Im just nice to them but the always see it as more. None of them will leave me alone. I try and tell them Im not interessted but they think im playing hard to get. I dont want to hurt any of them as I think they are nice guys but its getting beyond a joke. I went to Ireland for the weekend, and to one party, and by they end of it I had a whole new crowd of followers. And now my phone is constantly beeping! I try to ignore the texts and calls but they keep on coming! If I find a guy I like, I cant go out with him incase I hurt the others. Its upsetting me now, as I cant get on with my life. I do nothing to lead these guys on... they just seem so sure they are in with a chance even though I make it so clear that they're not! Valentines day was a nightmare... Please, whats the best way of letting them all down nicely, because unlike others, I DONT like the attention and I dont know why they like me so much. All the girls hate me now, even though its not my fault. Any advice? x
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (17 February 2009):
sometimes you have to be cruel to be kinda. you have to stop flirting with guys you're not actually interested in, as you are obviously sending them the wrong message. you just have to stop being so nice. i don't mean for you to become a bitch or anything, but when talking to guys who you only want as friends, don't flirt with them.
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