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writes: Hi, i recently noticed that i had sores on my vagina and i went to the doctor to get it checked out, the doctor thought it might've been herpes and tested it and the results came back negative. The doctor told me that the only thing i can do is wait till the sores comes back again. what could it be? and i'm in a relationship and i think we're ready to have sex, though i don't wanna give him anything and i'm afraid if i tell him i could have something contagious he might leave what should i do?
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (5 May 2007):
I think I would go to another doctor and fully explain. Let him know you saw one already but you have some major concerns of what you experienced and what the other doctor told you. Then, I don't think I would be having any sex till you are certain. If the shoe was on the other foot and no one said anything to you and you had sex and caught a contagious disease, would you be happy about that? Honesty is the best policy. If you are having unprotected sex and with several partners, you will eventually contact something or get pregnant...please becareful. AND go see another doctor. Your results could have accidently been tampered with or were not really your's. If you have a medical book, you could look under different types of disease's and or infections and see if one best describes what you have experienced. Some are treatable with medication and unfortunately some will be with you for the rest of your life with medication. Don't have one go to a library..xerox the pages if you need to. Hope this helps you out. Take care and I hope everything is just something minor.
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reader, agony_emz +, writes (4 May 2007):
hi there!!!
what i think you should do is go to the hospital or you local family health clinic and have some more test done. also i think you that maybe talking to your partner about your concerns can also help take the stress of you or talk to a member of family who will be able to go the the hospital with you!!
i really hope it works out for you!
good luck x
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