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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am 24 years old and I started sleeping with my husbands 18 year old cousin, I dont love the cousin it kinda was something that just happened. It is fun and exciting havent felt like this in along time. What do we do keep on or stop? Kinda want to do both
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (20 May 2007):
are you aware of what marriage is?
its a commitment of love, honesty and faithfullness. this means you dont lie, cheat and brake his heart and especially dont risk destroying a family. what kind of woman are you to ask should you continue to cheat. if you were any type of person youd come clean to your husband that your a lier.
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reader, love-him +, writes (19 May 2007):
stop, rly chick put urself in your husbands position...u may like this guy but like u said u dont love him, you must have/or stil do love your husband or you wouldnt have married him. realy chick dont continue this as it WILL bring bad consiquences kai chick, hope i helped x x x mail me f u wana talk
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (19 May 2007):
Well, of course you should STOP. You're cheating on your husband, and with his cousin no less! It's fun and exciting because it's risqué, it's "bad". Try spicing up your sex life with your husband! Do something new in bed, try out some things you haven't tried before.
You absolutely need to stop things with your husband's cousin. Also, expect that this will be found out. Family is family, and unless his cousin is super secretive and will carry this to the grave, your husband will eventually find out. I think you should tell him first.
You need to remember why you love and are loyal to your husband in the first place! Work on your relationship with him, not his relatives!
Good luck, sweetness. Sorry to be harsh, but good advice is honest advice.
xxIndia
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (19 May 2007):
Sleepin with your husbands 18 year old cousin isnt very nice to be doin.
Ask youself this -how would you feel if your husband did this to you?
Please stop doin this rite away, your married not single.
Bein married doesnt mean you can sleep with who you want.
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