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writes:I am 20 years old my parents were married before I was born I am one of three siblings. I always thought my parents were having a happy marriage until one day I went into my fathers work bag and found condoms!!. I asked my mom if they used comdoms and she said "why would we if were married we never have!!!" now I know my father has been unfaithful to my mom. I do not know what to do! if I should say something to my mother or not. Should I GPS my father? I NEED help!!P.S both parents are biological
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reader, ramone34  +, writes (3 February 2011):
i wouldnt get involved if i was you, it could be anything
then again your mum may have put 2 and 2 together after your question(condoms). anyway as some one else said leave him to it unless you have either 100% proof ie see him with her or he is being indiscrete.
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (3 February 2011):
I was in a very similar position to you many many years ago when I was 17. I loved both my parents dearly... and although I knew it was wrong of my father, there was no way I could tell my mother... it would have broken her heart. I knew it wasn't right what he was doing, but I didn't feel it was my place to say anything.
Its tough, but I suggest you let them sort it out, he will either get found out eventually, or he will stop (hopefully)... hand on heart I think my father did stop, because he disappeared off the face of the earth for a month, wrote us all a letter and went to another country... said he needed space to sort his head out.... 25 years on they are still together and very much in love. I am glad I didn't tell my mother!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 If you always thought that your parents were having a happy marriage then they probably are. The fact that a man occasionally does something that he shouldn't do after he's been married for more than 20 years is no reason to break up a family which is what you will be doing if you mention this to your mother. Forget it, it's not your business unless he is indiscreet.
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (3 February 2011):
 This is probably something you really REALLY don't want to hear. But it doesn't mean he's cheating, some guys use condoms to masturbate.
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