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writes:I am 21 and when i have intercourse i cant get off. I dont know what is wrong with me but when i have sex i have no problem getting it hard and ready but once i start i just cant orgasum. The girls that I am with usually have to stop before i even get any chance of getting off bc they are so tired bc it takes forever. Then i end up with blue balls. I have an above average penis but i dont think that has anything to do with it right?...i understand that it can be hard getting all 14 inches in but again that shouldnt matter right... if anyone has any answers or tips on how i can orgasum PLEASE HELP... i need anything. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): i agree that i could have that but i dont have any of the other sympoms. i can orgasum during masterbation bc i can do it fast and i can have the sensation of touch through my entire penis. when i have sex i cant. and another quick question, when i do reach orgasum i have lots and lots of ejaculate like....LOTS, like i can fill a coffe mug, is that normal. thank you
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Different positions/angles can help? By the way, 14 inches sounds huge! I'd be too scared to know what that is in METRIC!!!!!! H.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Yes, I have another post: if you can have an orgasm with masturbation, this is definitely a psychological thing. I insist: you suffer from delayed ejaculation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Thank you everyone but i have lots of foreplay i just cant go and a lot of the time girls just wanna get right into it bc they like it. then there to tired and i dont like to finish up all my self bc they are to tired for more play after to help me out. let me know if u have anymore answers please. thank you
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 ok so you have problems achieving orgasm through sex - what about other forms eg oral sex and masturbation? i think you need to spend time doing foreplay before sex instead of just going straight into sex. also, try different positions and techniques too, so that you can see what you like and what pleases you.
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reader, I care  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Try having more forplay before the actuall act of intercourse and don't be shy to tell the women what you like and what feels good to you. woman like to fulfill their mans needs.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (4 April 2008):
If I understand your post right, you have no erection problems at all. Your problem is that you can never achieve an orgasm, though you sustain the erection all that time, so long that girls get tired.
You suffer from delayed ejaculation. Medical information about it is here:
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/ejaculatoryincompetence.htm
You mention you're well endowed. I think I would also recommend that you paid good attention to technique. I'm sure your girls aren't exactly please with this, either. I understand that, no matter what we believe, some women find that large penis cause them pain. So you have here a man who "causes pain" and never orgasms. This is a second problem, and I think you have to solve them one by one.
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