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30-35,
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writes:I've recently met someone, and we both really like each other. The only problem is, is that I have BDD mildly (Body Dysmorphic Disorder) and I find it so hard to form relationships with guys.I want to actually get somewhere in a relationship, instead of backing out when anything gets a bit intimate.I need some advice on how to relax and try not to worry, and try to have fun within a relationship.Any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, myp  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 if you have problems with body image, then try to find the beauty in yourself. Remember if a guy is even trying to be intimate with you he must find you attractive, have faith in yourself. Your personality plays a big part in that too, if your comfortable talking with the guy your dating now tell him about your BDD, chances are hell help you reassure yourself of your own beauty and desireable qualities.
best of luck
-Myesha
message me if you want to talk =)
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 June 2007):
 It's all more in the mind that you feel different than anything else. Just be YOU! Be friendly and just let your personality take over. You're much too young to be getting intimate with anyone so give that a miss for a few years yet, just enjoy male company for now and learning to see how a guy ticks. You have loads of time in the years ahead to explore the sexual side of things.
Eve
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