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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I feel really silly asking this, because I know it is probably really silly! But I just need some advice on how to handle this situation. In my previous relationships, every time just as I think I am so happy, and the relationship is going great, they either leave me or cheat on me and then leave me for that person.. A few years ago I met an amazing guy, we knew we were meant to be the moment we met, but he was in a relationship at the time. Well, we are now together, they broke up quite a while ago, not because of me, but their relationship was just not working. I now have a problem with totally giving myself and relaxing in our relationship. I keep thinking what if he does exactly what the others did to me? Even though I know he wouldn't, and he has told me so so many times. I feel like I can't give my all, because what if he does? What if I get hurt? How do I just let go, and accept that he loves me and wants to marry me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): Tell him of your concerns, but that you trust him and believe that he will not do the same to you as he did to the other girl or that your past boyfriends have done to you. Ask him to keep talking to you and let you know if you're doing anything that might drive him away. Basically, if you keep talking and communicating, there should be no problems. Stay interested in him and the things he does, and hopefully, he's the same for you. Good luck.
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