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writes:This question will probably be very hard to answer. I have huge problems talking to girls, whether they are good-looking or not. I never know what to say or how to be charming and sweet etc. I also have problems talking to guys (making new friends). I have moved to a new school this year. I am in grade eleven and I have not had my first kiss. I feel that I am such a loser, well I actually know that I am such a loser. I hate being so shy. I hate the way I look, I am so ugly. Thats probably why I have no self-esteem or confidence in myself or what I do. I try play guitar, sport, do art, everything I try do I just fail at it. Everything. I would love advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): This made me very sad! You have to find somehting in yourself that you like, don't worry about what everyone else thinks! I think you should make a list of atleast 25 things you like about yourself. Then focus on that, being confident doesn't mean you necisarily like everything about yourself it's more of finding your strengths and letting them shine. Most importanatly i'm sure you do not fail at everything. God has a plan for everyone and I know you have talents. So once you understand that you are not a loser then you can talk to girls! Girls don't care as much about looks and sports as guys think, it's more about how you treat them. (at least the right one will only care about this) Just learn to be yourself and slowly just get to know some girls start with friends and just get to know them and see where that gets you! Just be positive and keep your head up, like they always say you never know who is falling in love with your smile. Good luck!
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