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I have found out that my husband hit on my best friend.

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Question - (11 June 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have found out that my husband hit on my best friend. They had a text relationship about sex and he approached her twice. Both times she refused him but I cant help but think she encouraged him. She is naturally flirtatious and attention seeking. I have seen some of his text to her but not her responses, but he has said that she did not ask him to stop nor did she tell me. I am having difficulties dealing with it and trusting them both.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007):

She would not be my friend any more for sure and I would be seriously questioning whether there was a future place in my for my husband as well. You seem to be making this quite easy on them. Where is your fury? I would go completely crazy, there is no way I could trust anyone who did that to me. Not without massive expressions of guilt and remorse, being made up to for years and probably counselling. Your friend deserves to be dropped, what a horrible, deceitful person. Why do you stand for this stuff in your life?

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