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anonymous
writes:so i've been with my bofriend, john, for four months now, and i really really do love him. i have had a few relationships but nothing that has been great, the only thing is, this is his first relationship and its beginning to be a fairly serious one too. This makes him quite shy about sexual things and im not shy as so. And i want it but he is not giving. also just lately i have become very friendly with this other boy, dale, (who is absolutly gorgeous!) and he likes me. also dale would be able to give me what i am wanting as he is more forward about sex and things. so i am very confussed as what to do as i love my boyfriend dearly but am beginning to have feelings for dale. the main problem is i dont think i would be able to end it with john as he is crazily in love with me and he is in all my classes at school, in my form and i sit behind him to make it worse! :/ and by the way, this is not mainly about the sex. its about them both in general. please help!
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reader, Western3589  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 I believe your too young to be making such decisions about sex and relationships. You have your whole life to find a guy, why are you stressing yourself with drama at this age? You should be enjoying life
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reader, Kenj +, writes (20 August 2010):
 I would totally agree with alexia_marie. It sounds like dale wants one thing.
If he is more forward about sex then its likley hes been arround more.
John will give you what you want when he is ready but its important not to pressure him into doing anything he isnt ready for yet.
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reader, alexia_marie +, writes (20 August 2010):
you should stay with john, and you can be open with sex to him, and you guys would be your first together, or you would be his first and he would like you more, and then you would both be excited and connected more, and this guy dale would just want sex, then break up with you, just stay with john, and everything would be fine.
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