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writes:i am a 17 year old male and have been very attratced to another male at college for the past two or three months. the dilema is that i don't even know his name, of whether he is definately gay (his clothing does not show particular masculinity). a lack of confidence makes this sort of thing very hard and i am not openly homosexual either. i really want to know what i do now and whether i should just try and ignore it. can you help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): I think that you should find a way of talking to him somehow, and become friends with him. That way you can tell if he is gay and maybe likes you back, and also it would be a good way to make sure of your own feelings too, it could be possible that he is different to what you originally thought.
The fact that you are not openly gay makes things a little harder because it will take a while for you to be able to hint at the fact that you like him even if you are friends - but if you are friends then you can definitely get to know more about him!
If you want more advice feel free to private mail me - Good luck :) !
xx Hope xx
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 May 2008):
Well if you're sure these feelings for him are of a sexual nature and not just admiration, then I guess it works like straight realtionships.
We never know if the person we like, likes us back but the only way of knowing is by finding out!
Try and befriend him first, maybe join a team he is on or a club he is a member off, once you're friends it will be easy to know if he is gay and whether he likes you. All good realtionships blossom from friendship.
GOod luck
xxx
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