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*ilveknifex
writes:So basically, we've been almost going out for 2 months but she feels as if we rushed into this relationship she really wants this too work out between us but feels she cannot go any farther without first figuring out what she neeeds to do about her ex, she was acting weird the past week and that's because she finally realizes how much it's bothering her that she can't love 2 guys at once, she can't start to love me if she still loves him, and she said I'm like the perfect guy, so now I really care about her feelings and we've come to the terms that she needs time to herself so she can figure out what she wants to do without the pressure of going out with me I guess, I have faith in her that this will all work out, but the ex was with her for 3 years and every time she says let's hang out he bascially makes up excuses so they dont get to talk, the last year of their relationship was full of neglect, revenge and anger, and right now im none of those things with her, i think she feels releived now that she can think, waht should i do tho i love this girl and i know shell come back to me if things dont work out with herex, but waht if some how, they do ( idk how tho hes an ass)
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 give it time thats a sucky answer but thats what you need to do. now i'm not saying just lay down and take it... she her how much she means to you show her that you do love her and your mr right not mr wrong
hope this has helped
jenni hearts
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