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*rico
writes:There is a girl who is 20 very beautiful working in the same factory with me since she was employed in the factory we havn't being in a communicatïng terms. Though she thus communicate with other guys and even flirt with them but no so romantic with them. A time came in the factory were we had lots of work to do for fewer workers. I was asked to help her group in the factory for the work load was heavy on them so i devouted to help. Spercifically in that group i was working with her. Her cooperation was so fantastic. This brought us to communicating terms. Any slight joke from me makes her laugh. Whenever am by her side she always laugh. She finds me so funny that thd mere sight of me makes her laugh and very happy. This happened till i got admission into the university and i left. After sometime we were given vacation and i came back to the factory. On the day of my arrival she saw me from a distance and opted forcefully to take my bag in. Later we had a chat she told me she missed me alot. Later on that day one of my friend there told me that she's flirting with my cousin. Later that night she confided in me that my cousin loves her and she normally cooks for him and do some other chores for him. She even went ahead to tell me that she has never had sex with my cousin. Infact she confides in me every little bit of her secrets and also her past boyfriends and their tales. Since i came she has also being doing things things to please me. Even if i do offend her it wont even be up to 30 minutes she will opt for reconciliation we'll be friendlier than before. These things had made me develope feelings for her. Every time am with her i do compliment her and she finds it lovely. Sometimes i tell her dat am having a girlfriend she won't find it serious she will find as a normal joke of mine. When i actually left back for school she called me several times on phone telling me she missing me that i should come back soon. And sometimes offer to romance me. I am so confuse because someone whom before were not in talking terms turns overnight to be so good to you. The most confusing thing is my cousin loves her she has been doing many things except having sex with him. I too now has develope feelings for her but havn't told her for my cousin sake. I want to know if she loves me will it be good i tell her or not. Will she like me if i tell her. Please dear benevolent ladies and readers alike. Please i need your help me am in a confuse state. Thanks all for your cooperation. Thank u.
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reader, erico +, writes (19 June 2012):
erico is verified as being by the original poster of the question I really appreciate ur responce nd encouragement. My friend in the factory even use to call me on phone tellin me she is missing me am so suprised about this for i've never told him about us or the relationship. For this i know going on to tell her won't be a problem. Please i'll need more advice from benevolent persons . Thank you all.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 From reading your post, I think she really likes you and you should call her and ask her out. In fact, I would be so bold as to go ahead and tell her that you really like her. From all of the details you have given about her...the phone calls, the nice way she greets you, the things she shares with you...she definitely feels a closeness with you. I would not worry about your cousin...in fact...pretend as if she never said anything about him. Unless she is engaged or married, she is free to see whomever she wants.
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