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writes: i have bein going out with my boyfreind for a year and a half he his my soul mate, i have recently cheated on him with someone reaaly special and means alot to me, i dont know how i feel abot him cause a ge reallt jealous of him being with other people, what shall i do
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reader, stina +, writes (28 August 2006):
I think that if you cheated on your "soul mate" with someone "really special" then you need to break it off with the both of them and sort out your feelings. you are being really selfish and you can't treat people this way. how would you like it if the tables were turned? what if your boyfriend cheated on someone who was "really special" to him? and as for being jealous who the other guy is with, you really don't have any right to feel this way - he is not your boyfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): You say he is your 'soulmate', your 'lost half' but you cheated on him with someone who 'means a lot' to you, someone 'special'. This is ultimately paradoxical in nature. I guess need some 're-difinition' work with your criteia. Tell your boy friend about it and try to forget the other guy. It seems to me you helplessly need your other HALF!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): you just stuffed up with your b/f.. good luck in regaining his trust mate, i call that inmature by you
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reader, Wild Thaing +, writes (28 August 2006):
Honey, what is your definition of "soulmate"? Please tell us so we can provide better counsel.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (28 August 2006):
From what I gather, you cheated on your soul mate, with someone who is really special. I thought a soul mate was someone really special. Apparently, in your case, not so much. I think you should go back to school and forget about dating for a while. Join the Peace Corps.
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
Sorry I dont understand, you say you cheated on your guy with someone special, but who is it you dont know how you feel about, is it yor boyfriend or the guy you cheated with? Explain that to me first then I can suggest what perhaps you could do. xXx
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