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I have been masturbating a long time, but I have a problem with orgasm, can anyone help me?

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Question - (10 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, its kinda a sex question ive been masterbating since i was 12, and i have been sexually active since i was 14, nd im 15, i know weird, but i just want to know why i dont come when i masterbate, i mean i sumthimes do but most of the time, i dont, or it comes out a while after is there sumthing wrong with me? i know that im hitting the "g" spot, but idk whats wrong,

also can all women squirt? er just some?

ALso when im having sex i never get an orgasm er come?

can someone explain i have no one that i can ask about this, i dont wanna ask my doctor because im afraid theyll tel my parents, about the having sex part

but anyways can anyone help me?

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A male reader, generalist India +, writes (10 November 2009):

Dear you are totally confused..

All the women dont't squirt..

The way all women dont have same physic ,same way every woman has a different way of reacting to the feeling including orgasm....

ok as far as reaching orgasm is concerned it not necessary that u reach orgasm while having sex...

i mean few of my GF reached it when i licked her clit or played with it...

few did not reach orgasm with clit but while having sex....

and most important thing if have sex as a mechanical thing then at times you wont reach...

its not a mechanical thing but happens at more deeper mental level......

make sure that you are really into it while getting over each other and feel the speciality in sharing yourself with your BF....

you really have to be mentally involved with the person u r having sex....and then see you definitely will get orgasm..

at your edge sex drive is so dominant that at times we forget that there something beyond just sex....

just be relaxed and be into it..i promise u will enjoy...

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