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writes:my bf has a female friend at collage and she is wildly innapropriate. This is some of what she does:asked my bf what his tongue technique is likeshe details about how she gives headshe always talks about how big her boobs areshe tells him she shavesshe talks about sex constantlyam i being stupid or is she really being innapropriate?im SO sick of her. i dont know what to do about it. She is such an attention seeker, picking out all the boys in her class and telling them dirty things. What can i do? i feel like i want to say something to her. i always tell my bf i hate her but i dont know what else to do. he is such a hypocrit because he tells me not to worry about it but says if my guy friend in my class was saying that to me he would kill him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): Pity her, what truely happy person would try and get attention from guys like that?
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Well I don't think there is much for you to do.. She is free to say what she wants to say. Unfortunately, you are not free to sock her in the face for doing it. She's simply an attention seeker... I will just say.. just trust your boyfriend..
Well as far as a guy doing it to you, I will say it's not as likely because if he did.. he'd have a case against him for sexual harrassment..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): WTF DUMP HIM! What a douche bag!
How could he allow some slut to talk that sort of trash with him with you in his life? NO! DUMP HIM!
This is sick. This makes me feel so angry. Please, for your own good, forget this guy and find someone who will respect you & not condone those kinds of converstations with the opposite sex.
I'm sorry, but this is some bs. How dare he!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): I guess there is not a lot you can do if your boyfriend is prepared to listen to it. I mean he could always tell her to shut up or simply walk away from her - maybe then she'd get the message. If he likes listening to dirty talk from another person and you don't like it then dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): totally understand how you feel
might not be that good advice but its SOME advice!
keep talking to him about it
see if you can get him to like shun her away whenever she talks like that- just tell her shes being gay- tell her to go away to seek some other guys attention be stupid to some other guy?
and i personally would tell her that she should not be so attention seeking and stupid and slutty but thats just me and id probably get trouble for it- but its not really bitchy i think because she IS like that! maybe a nicer way to say it.. like ... hmm not sure haha anyway i doubt anyone would really have a problem with you straight up telling her shes stupid and attention seeking if she really is like that
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): Your bf sounds like he likes the attention, perhaps she also thrives off the attention he gives her
the only way she will stop is if your bf tells her to, but he must like it, because you have told him you are uncomfortable with it and yet he doesnt discourage it? also he knows that its inappropriate because he said he wouldnt like it if a male friend were doing it to you so he is being a hypocrite. you have to put your foot down and tell him he has to tlk to her and tell her to stop
or you have to get over it and accpt that shes part of his life too
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