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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, so a couple weeks ago, I met this girl while I was having an anexity attack, and it turned out she had those kinds of issues too. We swapped each others phone numbers, and constantly chatted through text messaging. She seemed really nice, so I asked her to homecoming. She said she needed to talk to her mother about it, and she would call me. So later that night, she calls me admiting that she is gay, but she would still like to go as friends. I accepted, but then afterwards, we started being closer together, sitting next to each other on the bus, having long conversations, and we even went out with her brother and saw a movie. We are both really good friends, and we "both" hope to be friends for a while. i'm just asking for advice on what to do at this dance because I don't want to ruin anything for her or make her feel uncomfortable. All I ask is that anyone who was ever in this type of situation, please give any kind of tips or advice, because even though she is gay and I respect that fact, I don't want to lose this friendship. I also have aspergers, so I am socially awkward/confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): This seems like a contradictory situation (at first glance).
As for having Asperger's, well... help her find a partner/girlfriend, that would be the best thing you could do for her.
Of course her lesbianity may just be temporary experimentation (a la Megan Fox), as teenagers tend to do, so there is hope, meaning that there is a silver lining in the clouds to this situation.
You can't predict how this will play out, so take it as it comes.
This is about the best advice I can give.
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