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writes:I love my Friend, we are like just friends for about 1.5 years, now I feel that I am in love. I want her as my Girlfriend and i've told her but she is not giving me positive answer. one thing which could be important that she does not want to break our friendship and i want that she accept my proposal. Friends please help me, what could I do now????one thing that she is reserve type and do not allow anyone to interfer in her life :( Reply to this Question
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 Nothing you can do. You asked and now it is up to her. I worry that you are more important to her as a friend than a boyfriend though. Also, if she was really into you as a bf, then she may not have mentioned breaking the friendship.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 perhaps she is concerned that you will be controlling?
if you told her how you felt and asked her to have a romantic relationship with her and she has not answered, then perhaps she is not interested in you that way and does not want to hurt your feelings or risk ending a friendship by saying no.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 Continued hot pursuit, if she is a feminine reserved type she'll be attracted to the king of the jungle, prepare a feast, and get on your jogging shoes.
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reader, Dreamland  +, writes (16 May 2011):
Hint: You have been friends for about a year and a half because you've been relegated to the "friend zone", which is not a good place to be for a guy if you like a girl. There's nothing you can do, say, pray, or whatever; she's either attracted to you or she isn't, and if she really wanted to you as a partner she would not have hesitated saying yes. Don't live in denial by creating all these complex excuses or scenarios in your head.
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