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female
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30-35,
*nexpected_love
writes:well, i'll start here, i love my boyfriend. i'm almost 17, and he wants to get engaged, i know, sounds soon, but we really love each other and we've known each other since the beginning of january, fallen in love. me and him, we can read each other's minds, saying the same things at the same time, thinking the same way. we just, connect. we aren't going too fast at all, he knows how much school is important to me, and respects me. he's a gentlemen, someone you rarely see these days. so i don't want anyone judging me, saying i'm too young, cause i can balance things easily, still have a's and b's in school and have him. he means so much.the issue is:he wants to have sex.i'm a virgin, done about everything else, with exes and him, but we tried last time 2 have sex, and i've also tried with my ex, and it hurt so much.my hole isn't...open all the way, it's like, u-shaped, a slit of a u. it's not closed, i was just wondering if i need surgery for this or if it'll be a very painful sex experience, if that's just what's to happen, or what.i'm a little scared, but ready for it, because i love him, and i don't know if it's normal to have your hole like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): maybe search some pictures of vaginas on health websites and see if they resemble yours, or go to a doctor.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (22 October 2008):
 See a doctor. Voice your concerns with them.
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