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I have a mental block when it comes to my girlfriend and I lose my erection!

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Question - (30 September 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

everything is great btwn us ... but we have this problem with our sex life.. we've had sex on and off for the past couple months.. but we've gone awhile without sex.. when we try i lose my erection as soon as we are about to have sex... i'm hard during foreplay etc... we've had great sex a few times but the majority of times i just cant keep it up.. i do tend to think about it before we even start... if im hard enough, am i pleasing her etc..at this point she's getting very upset..we both love eachother but she doesn't know what to do.. i dont want the relationship to end because of this..she says she needs the sex ...i do too but can't get past this mental block... any suggestions? please help!!

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