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writes:hello eveybody i dont really know were to start off from ill do my best to explain it ok my g-f totally ignored me for 1 week i asked if she wanted to hang out etc she usally said no im hanging out with well ill give him a fake name skip (Her guy friend) and if we did hang out then shed just ignore me said nothing to me then she whent to one of her friends house and they decided to hang out with skip so i just left shes ignoring me and always wants to hang out with skip. i kept quiet about it for awile then it was my g-mas b-day (she passed away but we were so close i still celebrate it as well as her aniversary of the day she passed away) they are hard times for me so i cut myself (yes i guess i am emo but i dont cut that often oly on days were ijust cant stand) well she totally bitched me out thinking that i was looking for a reason to be sad i tried to settle her down but she wouldnt listen to me it led to me breaking up with her. she said she still loved me and that she has to hang out with me more and skip less she said she wanted me to think about going back out with her i did and decided to take some time to think about it so i said ok she said shed let me know saturday(tonite) well i have a feeling she doesnt want to go back out with me we broke up a week ago at first she kept saying she loves me and she still wants to be with me but she doesnt want to hurt me she said she was confused then we talked at the end of every convo on msn every email she said i love you well three days ago she stoped sent 5 emails not one of them saying love u and on msn id say g2g love u and no reply today she said i miss you i said i miss you too then she left said i miss you more then she left then went back online when she left she just said see yah shes hanging out with skip tonite i dont know i think she doesnt want to be with me so the advice i need help with is if anywone knows if what she meens by miss you i need some adviceon what to do if she doesnt want to get back together how can i get over her im in love with her and also if i do go back out with her what should o doPLZZ HELP ME i know its alot to ask but i feel so hollow without her
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx ill do my best to move on and ill call that number you gave me, and ill try talking to my firends my parents dont really acknowlage my existance thnx for all your help and support
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reader, Smile_its_worth_it  +, writes (25 May 2008):
Hello,
First of all you have to stop cutting yourself. It is not good! Find a way to to control your emotions. If you need help contact childline on 0800 1111 and they can help. You can be anonymous so have no fear.
On to this girl. She is treating you wrong! So wrong! But you have to stop thinking that you are the problem. I fhtis is how she treats people then you are better of without her. Espically when you were already upset about your Grandma.
I think she has no respect for you!! Respect yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Sorry sweety but your message wasn't very clear, but I think I know what you're saying.
She didn't seem like a very good girlfriend really. Maybe you're just lonely. Do you have anyother friends that you could hang out with? If she doesn't want to go back out with you then you could concenrate on your friendships with other people. If you don't have any other friends then try finding a hobby where you could meet new people who like the same things that you like.
I think that you are very, very lonely.
Your message made me very sad. I hope you're ok.
Please don't self-harm anymore.
Cutting yourself has got nothing to do with being "emo" or not.
Self-harming is a very serious cry for help. It's very dangerous. I understand why you do it but in the long run it doesn't help and you leave your poor body covered with scars.
Try talking to your parents about how lonely you are and how depressed you have been feeling. If not them then another grown up who you are close to.
If you need to talk to someone about self-harming then mail me as I have a lot of experience with the subject. You are not alone.
Good Luck. X
Oh yes, and just ask your ex if she wants to get back with you or not. Be direct and hopefully you will get a direct answer. Try not to stress out if she says no. You could probably find another girlfriend who is not too pre-occupid with another guy.
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