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male
age
36-40,
*andomromantic
writes:My ex girlfriend and i began dating at the beginning of college had a fabulous 3 years, so we decided to move in together. Things were great at first, So after a year of living with her, the relationship started to break down. Everyday life and stresses, like my student loan running out and not having a job, finding a new apartment, paying bills etc. kind of sucked the romance out of it all. I guess i depended on her too much, i didnt have my license or a car, she always did so i never really grew up and got it done, i didnt have a job for a while. Anyways about 3 weeks before we needed to be moved out she left me, in the heat of the moment she asked me to wait for her idk if it counts for much, i should have seen it coming. i realize what went wrong and everything, she was so stressed. But she will not speak to me now.we didnt break up on bad terms, no fight, she just wont speak to me, its been almost two months now. I still deeply love her, shes the kind of girl that would be silent untouchable type, and i really think that she has feelings for me. I honestly think that she is someone that is worth the effort. So my question to you is what should i do? I know she checks my myspace page daily if that counts for anything. How should i go about trying to talk to her. Her birthday is soon aswell.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (26 August 2008):
 Get a job, get a license, get your life in order and SHOW her that you have changed for the better and that you can be a responsible adult who can take care of himself. If she is still checking your myspace, she must still care. But sometimes, we just need to take time out when we feel like we've done it all. I personally feel like she may be testing you and who knows maybe she felt that her being so supportive and strong was causing you to become a slouch. But get your act together so when you do contact her, you have something to show for yourself.
And do not forget her birthday, even if you are not ready to impress her, send her a card or something personal.
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