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writes:Lets say,you have this HUGE HUGE I mean HUGE crush on a guy. And you feel that it is reciprocated through gestures and actions (i.e smiles, tone conversations, etc). (I'm 17) Can it be possible that he feels the same way, or would he just be responding to what you are exuding? if that makes any sense. I think about this guy (who is probably in his mid 20's) EVERY single day when I'm at work, hoping that he'll stop by. My friends say I'm stalkerish because I googled him to see if he was out there (and he is), but I think this is just a crush phase right now(well, for a few months).I seriously can't stop thinking about him. It's insane. NEVER had I been in this situation before (I even randomly smile because of him and my dad looks at me like I'm crazy and asks, "what, did you see a rat?"). I hope it isn't his charm that's getting to me...I don't know, this doesn't feel normal at all (or is it?). I'm so confused!! .Thanks Cupids.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (22 August 2007):
You're not stalking him, your friends are just exaggerating!!! It seems to me like you just have a crsuh on him. And your feelings are normal for anyone who has a crush on someone.
As for whether or not he likes you, he could very well. Its hard to tell without any more info or seeing you and him intereact.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (22 August 2007):
 Its perfectly normal what you are feeling, its how we feel when we really fancy someone. The butterflies racing round in your tummy, thinking about them all the time, not being on this planet half the time, and smiling aimlessly to yourself.
If you think your feelings are reciprocated, up the flirting abit more just to make sure, keep the eye contact up and hold it for as long as you can, and find more excuses to touch him. Then if all this is reciprocated then ask him if he fancies doing something one night, if he has not already asked you.
Good luck x
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