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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I need help. A guy from my summer job got my phone number and started acting like he was interested in me. He told me he wanted to hang out and eventually even told me I was the coolest girl he'd ever met and that he was so caught up on me. We connected on an intimate level I would like to think, but we never discussed where it was going. Now, we are both off at school. Is it too late to have a relationship with this guy? We live only 45 minutes away from each other, but I have heard rumours that he has "hooked up" with his ex-girlfriend at school. For some reason, I still manage to really have feelings for this guy. So, my first question is: is it okay to still hang out with him. second, is it too late to be serious with him, and third, should I have spoken up sooner and asked. I feel like if I had maybe, I wouldn't be having this problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): Anything is POSSIBLE, sure. PROBABLE? That's another question.
Do you have his phone number? If so, give him a call and see if he'd like to meet for lunch, or even just coffee. See what he says. Or, email him with the same invitation. That's the only way you'll begin to get a glimmer of an idea as to his interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): If you and this guy are meant to me, your paths will cross one day.It is not to late to get something going with this guy, afterall, 45 mins isn't very far really. Alot of people have long distance relationships, and make them work!You can chat on Messenger every night.
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