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writes: hi dr cupid, I happen to have a huge crush on my first cousin whom he considers me like his sister. I really like him a lot that I can't go a day without texting or hearing from him. he is apparently not the relationship guy and even if he were, I wouldn't know how to tell him that I love him.how should i tell him that i have feelings for him?.the crush has been for four months now. please help. thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2015): Hi, I know how you feel as I had a huge crush on my 1st older male cousin when I was younger for years! I even remember getting really upset when I found out he got a girlfriend.
To be honest I always knew nothing could ever happen between us- I mean we are related & it would cause so many issues!
As time went on my crush faded- I had boyfriends & he got married (I was a bit envious at the time) but that passed. I ended up meeting my husband who I love so much & trust me - the feeling of love & feeling of a crush are completly different. A crush will fade, love won't.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do but just keep in mind it may upset a few people if you decide to have a relationship with him x
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