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writes:i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i love him 2 bits but he doesnt seem to want sex as much as i do and it drives me mad im 17 and he's 18, he's quite happy to have sex once a week or even less and it drives me mad i stay at his house quite a bit and he always gives me plenty of affection like kissing and cuddling but doesnt have sex with me, sometimes i'll give him a hand job until he comes and he'll finger me but it doesnt lead 2 full sex.when we do have sex we'll do it like 5 times in one night but i want it at other times as well. i dont like to keep initiating it all the time in case he finds it annoying.is it me that wants it too much and do i need to back off or is it him??
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reader, Natalie...x +, writes (28 August 2006):
 I think you both need to understand each others needs and act fairly, you want sex alot, he doesn't, so meet in the middle so that your both happy. Have a chat, if you really are that unhappy with the lack of sex, he should understand and try to meet that. Just try to please each other, but make sure you're happy with what you agree, then you won't end up arguing
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): Hmm. It is odd that at 18, he seems a bit put off from sex. This is the time he is in his "sexual prime".
Have you asked him about this?
You think maybe he just wants to take it slow? Think he may just respect you and not want to appear to demanding of you?
Talk to him.
Good Luck.
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