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writes:i am 24, in college, trying to start a career but there is a problem. My g/f and i have been on and off for about 3 years. We've had relationships with other people and even went almost a year without talking once. We are back together and she is great but the sex just isnt there. we occasionally have sex but it isnt enough. i'm sure i'm being an ass but i feel i need more physical attention than i'm getting. i'm willing to give it back 100 times over and then some but her libido is lacking and its really messing with me. I dont cheat, never want to, but i find myself thinking about it fromtime to time because it would be really easy. i'm not that kind of guy and i dont know why i'm thinking about it, nor do i know what to do. i want sex, i want this relationship to work but i'm not enthusiastic. i love my g/f and i know she loves me...but there is no communication of that aside form words. what do i do? i have a healthy sex drive and its not enough. she is just not interested in sex anymore. when we used to date we would skip school, be late for work, and ignore friends so we could have sex all day, now we just watch movies and go to sleep. What the hell. our relationship has what it takes to last but we are acting like we're 75 years old with prostate cancer. i'm the kind of guy that is ready to fuck at the drop of a hat and she is not interested. it makes me feel like she is settling for the only guy that treated her right but she might not be attracted to me. i cant be with someone who isnt physically attracted to me....no one can. its simply wrong. What do i do?
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reader, Dreamlover  +, writes (15 May 2009):
 I do believe that you need to talk to your girlfriend, you cant go on without her knowing that you are not been fulfilled. If you want to stay with her then there is only one person that can help you and that your gf. Speak to her and connect emotionally to her to actually find out whats lacking from her side, you might even find out that maybe you want too much and you may need to compramise.
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