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writes:Hey guys... Need an advice :) For about four years I haven't had a gf, then two months ago I met this fantastic girl I can't stop being crazy about, we started a relationship, which is by the way going pretty great, but there's one thing that freaks me out. I can't stop checking out other girls, as that turned into a habbit. The voice in my head sounds something like this: - We've got a date tomorrow night... I can't wait... I can't wait...And then, as a hottie walks out of the corner:- And look at those legs!!! Aren't they gorgeous?Is that OK? I don't like this, but it feels like there's nothing I can do to stop myself. Reply to this Question
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reader, NerdyGuy +, writes (29 July 2011):
NerdyGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys ;)
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reader, person12345  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Well I think everyone notices other people, so if it's just a quick look, acknowledge someone is attractive, attention back to what you were doing immediately, then I don't think it's a problem or abnormal. If you really want to stop, you just have to learn a bit more mental discipline. Like some people find it helps to mentally "punish" themselves for those thoughts, like immediately make yourself think of something repulsive when those thoughts pop into your head. Or when you start looking at someone, make yourself look at something else.
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reader, Roshii  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 its human nature, just dont be doing it with your GF, the chances are when shes out and about shes probably checking out guys, it doesn't mean anything. Girls generally are more hidden with it though, but you know there out there with there mates talking about hot guys if one goes past.
I wouldn't worry about it. were all wired that way.
Hope that helps
Roshii
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): yeah its okay - NORMAL - don't worry!!
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