A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well,Theres this guy1 and he has a girlfriend,and i have a boyfriend, and i love this boy to bits we been together nerle 3 months, and i couldn't ask for a better boyfriend,but guy1 is breaking up with his girlfriend,and we have so much in common its unreal.but i don't wanna get with him, because i no it will ruin our friendship, and when we are on our own i feel arkward, knowing he likes me, and he puts his hand on my leg, and that and i serouisly don't no what to do,i don't wanna stop seeing him, because were bestfriends,but i don't wana fall out, because of this, and i don't no how to tell him that i don't like him in that way,also him and my boyfriend are quite good mates, and i dno how to tell my boyfriend,and i feel more alright when guy1 is with me aswell as other people, so i don't get stuck in arkward positions.HELP ME :(
View related questions:
has a girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, NoProblem +, writes (11 August 2008):
 The best thing to do is tell guy1 that you are really good friends but that is all you think and want because you have a boyfriend. And you love you boyfriends, also they are good m8s so he should know if he feels anything he has to keep it to himself.
You should also tell your boy friend about this as guy1 can feel upset and tell you boyfriend things that have happen between you which actually havnt. This may not happen but it can so be aware.
Also just try to make it clear to guy1 you just want to be friends and that is it. I suggest you tell your boyfriend first but tell him not to say anything. Then you tell guy1 so that he cannot try to lie your boyfriend.
Good luck.
Look forward to a follow up.
xxxx
A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): You need to tell guy 1 that you like him as a good friend but you have a boyfriend and love him. If you can't tell him straight up then maybe keep talking about how amazing a boyfriend your boyfriend is and hope he gets the hint? It's not good when you begin to feel uneasy about someone because even if you enjoy the conversations you get a knot in your stomach about simply seeing them.
Would it really be a good idea to tell your boyfriend about this? Because you aren't cheating on him and if guy 1 is good friends with your boyfriend it could ruin their friendship... But as I tend to say, if it feels right to tell him then you should. Trust your gut instinct!
Hope that has been of some help! Good luck!
xx Hope xx
...............................
|
